Why does everyone always say, to gain confidence travel, learn a new language, a new skill ect.?
Well is because all these activities such traveling or gaining a new skill, boil down to you knowing that you’re intelligent enough to figure “anything new” out.
That’s it, that’s the confidence trick!
Only tomorrow will you know what that new thing is that you’ll need to figure out.
In life you’ll be faced with new challenges that will test your mental and physical capacity and you must remember that you’ve faced hard things in the past. And you’ll beat any issue that arrives.
Knowing that the same level of effort you put to getting through school, a difficult day, passing a test is the Same level of effort you’ll put into anything else. Willpower of getting up at 3am and working out and dieting for a fitness show, can be done with any aspect of life.
The Mental focus and strength you used to do those things can be redirected into anything. Never be afraid if you know you have the hard work and dedication to make anything happend.
Decide what you want and hone in on it. What is the most important thing you want and go in on that?
Simple things to remember about being confident:
? Is not about specifics if about generality.
? Have the same confidence you have in whatever you’re already good at and use it in every other aspect of your life. Flex every other muscle.
? Be confident in yourself. Not in specific tasks.
? If you’re healthy which is #1 everything else is just left to learning and practice.
? The confidence is in yourself not in the specific thing that you could do.
? Just be confident to know that you will do your best. You are willing to put in the work. That’s it no ifs buts or maybes. Just confidence.
? Be intelligent and a hard worker, anything job specific can be learned.
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